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  • Beth
  • 42, professional female
  • Double room wanted

Total budget: £750 pcm

Description

Dear Reader,

Are you looking for an emotionally intelligent, well mannered, tidy and boundaried (but also silly and fun) Woman with whom to share your home? Perhaps you intuitively know that we Humans are wired for connection and that with the right person it is possible to co-regulate your nervous system so you can mutually thrive and reach your full potential as a result of having increased safety and connection in your living environment?! (try and say that in one breath)

If so then HELLOOO Friend! Might you wish to be my fairy god landlord/lady?

About me as a person: I deeply value integrity, kindness, inclusivity, empathy and creativity. I take genuine delight in the joy and evolution of those around me. My closest celebrity personality doppelgänger is probably Miranda Hart with a pinch of Flower from Ghosts USA. I am an INFP on the Myers Briggs scale (but only 51% introvert so I'm right on the cusp). I can can be socially extrovert but there is nothing I love more that sharing a space with someone else silently both doing our own thing. I've been on a huge spiritual and personal development journey which is still an active part of who I am (but don't worry I will not spiritualise you, try to fix you or shove this down your throat!). I have a daily meditation practice and devotional practice to the presence of what I understand to be God. (You may know it as love, beauty, truth, life force, stillness, clarity, soul, holy spirit, Great spirit, divine intelligence, Goddess, the divine feminine, Krishna, Allah, your cat, a great pizza, THE FORCE etc etc etc)

About me as a house mate: I work from home part time, as an online therapist and vocal coach (and combiner of the two). I am integrative, somatic and transpersonal and have trained in many modalities such as Internal Family systems and EMDR. Due to my frankly ghastly run in with long covid (which is still lingering and has led to long term chronic illness and a massively shrunken lifestyle) a large portion of my time since 2020 has actually been spent resting in bed and exploring every healing modality under the sun, hence my smaller budget. I am very actively working towards recovery and have come a long way, but not there yet friend. I would not need anything from you around this, but if you have a furry friend I may borrow them for cuddles and I'm happy to rest with earplugs! I love both kids and animals and would be happy to pet or babysit in exchange for lower rent. (I could also teach you meditation).

The most important thing to share is that I have a dream which is my North Star! I wish to make and share an album of songs that heal and alchemise. I need to find somewhere to live where I can have a space big enough (and safe enough) to follow this deep calling. Music is my medicine and currently the shared space I am living in is not suitable to do this (ouch says my soul!). I would not be singing all day and night, and could have arranged times of both singing and silence - I would be deeply considerate. I want to acknowledge that I would also need to "feel free' in the space i'm in in order to access the deeper transmission within and be able to sing with authenticity.

What I can contribute: I will love your pets and sing to your plants! (water them too obviously!) I will share my gifts and skills with you (should you want this). I will treat you, your belongings and your home with deep respect, celebrate your wins, listen to you when you've had a tough day and fill your house with love. I will transform you into a patron of the arts without any effort on your part as you would be supporting the creation of an album just by having me in your space(!). I'd also be delighted to cook healthy meals from time to time.

Ideally I need:
A quietish and clean space so when I record my demos my voice is louder than the traffic!
A damp free zone
No smoking inside and preferably no wild rodents (once had them in my bed at a rental)
I am an introvert and quite self sustaining so I would not like to be expected to hang out aaaalllll the time but I am very friendly!

If I were asking a genie I would wish for:
-An inspiring and kind housemate who I can feel expansive around
-A beautifully decorated uncluttered (not a harder) house that makes me sigh peacefully and feel inspired and supported by the universe when I walk inside!
-Trees I can see out of a window in a shared space or nearby within walking distance (I am unapologeticly a bit of a tree hugger but if there is not a tree within a 15 minute walk we are surely living in Mordor?!)
-A dedicated space I could set up my home studio and feel deeply creative
-Enough space that I can do yoga in my room (wouldn't want to wobble around in public sight!)
-Dare I say an ensuite bathroom?!
-Storage in my room for my clothes and books etc
-An outside space to feel the sun on my face and hang my washing!
-A clean kitchen where I can have my own cupboard and shelf in the fridge
-Somewhere I can park my car nearby (on street is fine)
-Somewhere close to the energy of art and creativity - or nature e. g a relatively nearby theatre venue (within 25 minutes travel), art gallery, museum, park etc etc as these kind of places energise me and feed my soul!

I'm aware I'm asking for a miracle, but I'm choosing to believe that miracles exist, and I trust that this could be a win win situation for the right person... What are you wishing for?

Wishing you Peace.

Availability
Available
Now
Minimum term
3 months
Maximum term
None
Looking in
  • Abingdon
  • Bampton
  • Faringdon
  • Lincoln
  • Oxford
  • Wantage
  • Witney
  • Woodstock
Amenities required
  • broadband
  • washing machine
  • off street parking
About me
Age
42
Smoker?
No
Any pets?
No
Language
English
Occupation
Professional
Interests
music, yoga, theatre, dancing, fashion, nature, writing, gigs, culture, eating, meditation, singing, exhibitions, environment
Gender
Female
New household preferences
Smokers OK?
No
Pets OK?
Yes
Occupation
Don't mind
Min age
28
Max age
99
Gender
No preference specified
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